wrote on August 31, 2026
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12:48 pm
Psychology says there's 4 attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganized.
Spent the week listening to therapists trying to find mine.
Turns out none of them quite fit, not because I'm closed off, just wired more 'independent' than the chart accounts for.
So instead of forcing myself into one of the four, I'm having premium AI models help build a style that's actually mine, brick by brick. Custom, not off the shelf.
And I'm not doing it solo, open to suggestions on fashion, nightlife, intimacy, all of it.
Genuinely interested in the people and connections that help shape it, I'll just be the one narrowing it down before it's final.
Presence built to match.
Here is a study workbook to find your prefabricated style!
Spent the week listening to therapists trying to find mine.
Turns out none of them quite fit, not because I'm closed off, just wired more 'independent' than the chart accounts for.
So instead of forcing myself into one of the four, I'm having premium AI models help build a style that's actually mine, brick by brick. Custom, not off the shelf.
And I'm not doing it solo, open to suggestions on fashion, nightlife, intimacy, all of it.
Genuinely interested in the people and connections that help shape it, I'll just be the one narrowing it down before it's final.
Presence built to match.
Here is a study workbook to find your prefabricated style!
